Look to the Western Sky

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna

Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Milo Murphy’s Law
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Relationships: Balthazar Cavendish/Vinnie Dakota
Characters: Vinnie Dakota, Balthazar Cavendish, Milo Murphy, Zack Underwood, Melissa Chase
Additional Tags: Trans Vinnie Dakota, Bisexual Balthazar Cavendish, Bisexual Zack Underwood, Non-Binary Milo Murphy, Gay Pride, Fluff, Gay Vinnie Dakota
Summary:

Pride has come to Danville and Dakota wants to attend. Can he convince Cavendish to come along?

Source: archiveofourown.org
Pinned Post dakavendish vinnie dakota balthazar cavendish milo murphy zack underwood melissa chase pride
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themaskedotter

I’m crying because when my dad was eighteen he was going to join the airforce and then the night before he had a dream that Jesus slapped him in the face with a gigantic fish and asked him what he was doing and he woke up and thought, “Jesus is right what am I doing?” And that’s why my dad did not join the military. 

blue-resting-fish-face

One afternoon while studying, god told me to stop lighting candles and my life literally changed paths after that.

Maybe it was not God, just my own conscience but dude the timing was impeccable.

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xiaq

Bro (talking about a girl he’s interested in): She’s pretty cool. But kinda intimidating. She hates—well she doesn’t hate men but she hates the…man thing.

Me: …penis?

Bro: No. The—the thing. The bad cultural thing. The paternal thing. 

Me: Ohhh. The Patriarchy?

Bro: That’s the bitch.

Me: I feel like we should probably not call the patriarchy ‘bitch.’ All things considered.

Bro: You right. See? This is why I’m stressed! What if I say something dumb like that in front of her!? Anyway. We’re going out again on Friday, I just gotta make sure I’m not patriarch-ing. Can you help me pick out what I’m going to wear? Feminists like flannel, right?

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xollie

He actually doesn’t have the spirit, tbh, it sounds like it’s all performative so he can get his dick wet. Like he couldn’t give less of a shit.

xiaq

@xollie​ Yikes. Obviously, I didn’t repeat the entire conversation (or subsequent conversations) we had. Obviously, you don’t know this kid’s full story. He’s young. He’s learning. The fact that he was already differentiating between hating men and hating the patriarchy was a big deal considering the background he comes from. He is genuinely interested in this girl. He does not just “want to get his dick wet” (in fact, I think he may be on the asexual spectrum–we’ve had several conversations about cultural sexual expectations as well).

You’re young too, so I’m going to try and say this as kindly as possible: Please. Do not look at one anecdote (selected for entertainment value!) and decide you know the whole story. More importantly: Please do not make assumptions about people who appear to be putting in effort, even if that effort appears to be minimal (especially if you don’t know the whole story). Please do not deride people who are trying. No one is born with a full intersectional understanding of gender, sexuality, race, disability, etc. We are all works in progress. If people are trying to grow, please, give them a chance to.

thetwelveapopsicles

He is being performative.


Instead of researching what the patriarchy means, he’s asking you to tell him how he can look like he cares about feminism.


If he truly cares about her and woman’s struggles, he would have done some actual research.


Sure, it is a start that he’s trying to impress a feminist woman. Hanging out with her will likely introduce him to new ideas; however, if he’s not willing to put in actual work to learn the vocabulary and not mix up stereotypes and ideas, he will just be exhausting a woman who does not need to put emotional labor into educating him.

No one needs to pat your brother on the back. So many people learn about these things at a much younger age. In fact, woman are oppressed by our patriarchal society as babies and young girls.


You should hold him to a higher standard. He is 20 years old.

xiaq

Me: makes a clarifying post asking that people not make snap judgments about a person based on an anecdote I chose for comedic value.

You: does…exactly that.

I literally have a Ph.D. in feminist/queer theory and gender studies. You don’t need to explain performativity or oppression to me.

This kid is not my brother. If he was, I would be holding him to a higher standard because he would have had years of education about this.

This kid did not.  He spent 19 years in what I’d call a maliciously conservative Christian bubble (from his jokes and stories, an extremely racist, sexist, homophobic, and likely abusive environment) and it wasn’t until leaving for college (4 months ago!) that he was able to start figuring out who he is as a person separate from his family’s damaging influence.

He is trying to educate himself. Not just about gender but race and disability and religion. He’s reading books and watching youtube channels and asking a lot of (sometimes problematic! sometimes performative!) questions of people who are willing to answer them (mostly me and my friends at the climbing gym where he hangs out after class every day). He talks to us so he doesn’t bother his new friends his age with his questions. He started using the free counseling service on campus (so he’s not, you know, expecting free emotional labor from friends/girlfriends). He’s joined the gay/straight alliance. He’s attended various talks and events held by special interest groups on campus. I don’t think I’ve ever seen one of my own undergraduate students with such a genuine interest in learning about other people’s worldviews and lived experiences or one who has changed this much in such a short period of time.

It’s pretty audacious that you think you know more about this person and the standard he should be held to, after seeing one (funny! Jesus. I chose that part of the conversation because it was funny) tiny piece of the interaction I’ve had with this individual than I do. Someone who has spent several hours a week talking to him for several months. Watching him change drastically over that period. 

Four months. His education started four months ago.

I’m holding him to a standard he has a chance of meeting.

3-ducks-in-a-trenchcoat

Op is the only bitch in this thread I respect

crymaxin

Those replies were not shocking but dissapointing to read.

Tumblr is not the place to grow or learn about progressive topics. It’s too polarizing.

rockmarina

If people are trying to grow, please, give them a chance to.

star-anise

“Asking a trusted expert on the topic” is doing research. Have you gone on Youtube lately and tried to search something basic like “What is the patriarchy?” There’s a ton of trash out there! Sometimes it’s actually better to ask someone you know and trust than dive face-first into Google results.

doomhamster

YES THIS.

The internet isn’t a curated collection where you can be sure that the person you just sneered “educate yourself” at will be able to find the knowledge they need at a level they’re currently equipped to understand and without getting toxic shit along with it.

It doesn’t even have to be incel alt-right type toxic shit. I’m personally not delighted with the idea of young people who’re just starting to take an interest in feminism learning more about the topic from the kind of “I’m totally not a TERF but I’m constantly burping up their cold takes” people you find here on tumblr.

“I don’t have to educate you” rethoric sounds great in theory but if you actually give a fuck about things getting better in practice? Just answer people’s well-intentioned questions.

stele3

Haven’t you heard? If you don’t come out of the womb fully woke then you’re the enemy and should be shunned.

kane-dream

Help! I’ve been AEAB (Assigned Enemy At Birth)

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iwritesometimes:
“writing-in-the-grave:
“ thebusylilbee:
“star wars is so fucking stupid, I love it
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Prime example of why being a fanfic writer is painful
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star wars fuckery to english glossary: the reader’s digest version
• the star wars universe...
thebusylilbee

star wars is so fucking stupid, I love it

writing-in-the-grave

Prime example of why being a fanfic writer is painful

iwritesometimes

star wars fuckery to english glossary: the reader’s digest version

  • the star wars universe has no official name but in fandom you’ll see it shortened to GFFA for “galaxy far, far away”
  • glass - transparisteel
  • metal used in construction - durasteel
  • very strong space-plastic (used in stormtrooper armor) - duraplast
  • tablet computer (analogous to a PADD in trek) - datapad
  • rather than paper, handwriting is usually done with a stylus on flimsiplast (flimsi/flimsy for short)
  • holos are 3-d videos or videomessages, recorded and played on a holoprojector (these are often seen in small formats, palm-sized - analogous to like. a GoPro.)
  • we don’t drive cars, we drive landspeeders or speeder bikes
  • we don’t shoot guns, we shoot blasters
  • if you didn’t bring a knife to a gun fight, you perhaps brought a vibroblade instead - an edged weapon that, you guessed it, vibrates. little ones could be called vibroshivs or vibroknives. we actually got to see polearm versions of these in The Mandalorian! it was very exciting.
  • robots in GFFA are, of course, droidsastromech droids (astromechs) are the like. iphones of the droid world - ubiquitous, multipurpose, most with a similar aesthetic. R2-D2 and BB-8 are both astromech droids. human-shaped droids like C-3P0 are protocol droids.
  • got a papercut? a nasty flesh wound? a missing chunk of your torso, perhaps? slap a bacta-patch on it or take a dip in a bacta tank for a soothing treatment with this all-purpose miracle healing goo. this is what diapered Luke is bobbing around in during the early part of Empire Strikes Back.
  • you’re supposed to say kriff/kriffing instead of “damn,” “shit,” or “fuck/fucking,” but this is for cowards. let Obi-Wan cuss.
  • midichlorians - ignore them.
  • before the Empire comes to power, baby jedi who can’t hack it as knights or are never chosen to be Padawan apprentices become members of the Service Corps, the branches of which are the Agricultural Corps (AgriCorps), Medical Corps (MedCorps), Educational Corps (EduCorps), Exploration Corps (ExplorCorps)
  • dates are expressed (typically) as [date] Before the Battle of Yavin (BBY) or [date] After the Battle of Yavin (ABY). for instance, the sequel trilogy begins in 34 ABY.

and, yes: that famous cantina tune from Figrin D'an and the Modal Nodes is in a musical style called jizz. because star wars is incredibly stupid.

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j-uwu-ish

A very insidious form of transmisogony is that there can never be a positivity post for trans women without people (usually afab trans people) either derailing it OR reminding them about terfs and it’s ONLY for trans women- it’s much less often that anyone will mention “transphobes don’t look at this” on posts for trans MEN.

Trans women can’t exist without everyone reminding them that someone out their hates them, even people in their communities, and we as allies HAVE to do better. Instead of saying “terfs don’t look at this” or whatever preformative allyship floats your boat- deplatorm terfs, block them and STOP ENGAGING, and uplift trans fem voices!!!

As a Jew I rarely see “Nazis don’t even breathe on this post” when it’s Jewish positivity, but I ALWAYS see it on anything even REMOTELY related to trans fem things. It’s transmisogony, simple as that

j-uwu-ish

Non trans women are required to reblog this

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@danidonovan has signed her name at the bottom right of her artwork. Please give her blog a follow for more information on ADHD. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

I also pull a lot of my information from additudemag.com. Thankfully, we’re learning more about ADHD every day!

Also, remember, that people without this diagnosis can experience these symptoms, as well. ADHD is more chronic and a daily struggle.

Happy ADHD awareness month all 🤗

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mysharona1987

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nekojitachan

https://nerdbot.com/2021/01/09/new-pill-bottles-for-shaky-hands-will-help-people-with-parkinsons/

peachdoxie

This makes me cry, actually.

thesharpestlance

Just to add on. Libraries in many cities have 3d printers you can use that charge you only the price of materials. So if you can't wait for the shipping from the engineers, try your local library.

cricketcat9

Humanity at its best 🤗

anarchistmemecollective

bUt WhAt AbOuT tHe PrOfIt MoTiVe

queeranarchism

bUt wE cAn’T MaKe ThInGs aCcesSible WitHoUt CeNtRaLiZiNg EvErYtHiNg

brokenpocketwatch

The guy who made these doesn't have Parkinson's, he isn't a 3D modeler or printer, and he is making no money from this. In fact, he is likely spending money to hire a patent attorney. His only motive was to make the world a little better by helping fix a problem he saw online.

This is the what the world can be. Without profit and gain as motivators, we can do so much more.

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tribble-me-this

So recently, I’ve been noticing a lot more people starting to call Disney out on their bullshit, which is really awesome because Goddamn have they just gotten worse and worse as time goes on, but there’s one things I’ve started to notice about these posts that I think warrants a really important addition that needs to be made to all future callouts.

You see in a lot of these cases the consensus is “Fuck Disney” and while that’s very true, in reality your kinda being extremely broad here, as the company is broken up into at least 8 different studios, split into different divisions like ones for the theme parks and resorts, one for the cruise line etc, and has hundreds of thousands of employees under its belt. A lot of times when companies like Amazon and Tesla are called out, people are also making sure to specifically calling out their CEOs and founders, in this case Bezos and Musk, and making it very clear that they are also very much so in the wrong here, rightfully so placing the responsibility onto them.

But I rarely ever see this happen with Disney, and I thinks it’s important we start to change that a bit. Right now Disney as a whole is being helmed by two men, Bob Iger and Bob Chapek, as even though Chapek has officially been named the CEO and Iger was on his way out, he decided to step back into the role for a bit due to the pandemic, so he’s still very much at fault for a lot of this as well. You might know Iger as the man responsible for buying up, well, pretty much every hot ticket property Disney has right now including Pixar, Star Wars, and Marvel and as well as plenty of other shady deals. He’s even made it clear that’s he looking to take up a Presidential bid sometime in the next few years which is just Absolutely Yikes. Chapek on the other hand, is so notorious that even die-hard Disney fans more often then not will say they despise him, mainly due to his massive budget cuts in the theme parks that have not only dulled down the overall experience, but more importantly have resulted in thousands of cast members, even before the pandemic, being laid off because he didn’t see them as being “necessary”. His most common nickname is Lex Luther for a reason. And what’s worst, while they both agreed to cutting off their salaries completely at the start of the pandemic, they’ve since gone back to being paid-in full, and they’re still laying off massive amounts of their workers while their parks are being reopened, which I can tell you from personal experience is exactly what Chapek wanted all along.

There’s plenty more about these two guys that I could talk about, but the point here is it’s time to put faces and names to a lot of the shit the company has being trying to get away with over the years, and I wanna keep this post relatively short. So, just please remember, make sure whenever you say “Fuck Disney” that you also make sure to say “Fuck Bob Iger” and “Fuck Bob Chapek”. Make their names just as known as Bezos and Musk for all the wrong reasons, and maybe we can stop another fucking millionaire from having one of the highest seats in the US government.

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